In the Christian life, one mistake we can make would be to think that we have no further need to grow. How ridiculous is that? Thankfully, I don’t know many people who think that. However, a much easier mistake to make is to fail to recognise how growth happens or fail to allow growth to happen in my life.
If we don’t understand how growth happens, we are likely to either falsely perceive growth that isn’t really there, or falsely believe that it can’t or won’t happen. Still yet, even if we do understand how growth happens, we are likely to resist the process.
We want growth to happen, sure enough, but we can’t get past the biggest obstacle: our desire for comfort.
Growth requires discomfort. That fact is unavoidable. It’s as true as the reality that water flows downhill.
If we are ever going to grow as Christians, it means that we are going to have to give up level upon level of comfort in our lives. Read this next sentence carefully.
If you want to be more loving, you will HAVE to learn to put up with un-lovable people.
(Might wanna read that one again.)
Truth triumphs over feelings. We can’t rely on feelings. Frankly, I don’t FEEL like loving people that aren’t like I want them to be. But when my mind is renewed with the TRUTH that I am no better than they are, I am enabled to love them, whether I FEEL like it or not.
May we recklessly love one another in a true, self-less, Christlike way.
Grace and Love,